WHAT ARE TANTRUMS & HOW TO DEAL WITH?

Share Post; Spread Love

Post Views: 9,078

By: Mistura ShittuNiyas,

The Proprietress of Niyas International School, Lagos, Nigeria. +2348033566124

Tantrums are displays of anger, rage, annoyance, disobedience , disrespect, disregard, protest by children and over pampered adolescents or youths to demand for either of the following:

1. Attention and compliance of parents or siblings to their selfish demands.
2. To create fear of bad repercussions if their unwarranted desires or demands are not met
3. To create an alibi of no punishment or repercussions for bad behaviors or practices
4. To show dominion or strong willso that everyone around will be forced to dance to their tune.

WHAT ARE CAUSES OF TANTRUMS?

1. HEREDITARY: Children born from strong willed and domineering forefathers.

2. SPIRITUAL: Children whose past life experience was not erased from their memory and is still very vivid at birth. They will be super sensitive, and over reactive to any unwanted stimulus. Their ‘third eye’ , ‘inner ears ‘ are always at work. They possess the power of telepathy and can use it to control “everyone” whose spiritual “space’ is not ‘fenced’. That is why there is always a chain reactions when such a child is displaying tantrums. E. g.

a) The father gets frustrated because of unceasing yelling or crying and orders the mother to either give in to its demands or take him out of the room.

b)The neighbors irritated by the constant disturbance may call the parents to give pieces of advice on how to raise a child properly .

c) Parents and class teacher will be at a logger head concerning the proper raising of the child. Etc.

SOLUTIONS:

After having identified the fact that your child fits into the above description, you need professional help.
People who are tuned into the world where his spirit operates. Not necessarily going pastors or Imams, but getting a good school like Niyas International School that has all the professional techniques used to handle such children to bring about their hidden greatness.

These children possess great potentials when positively and expertly motivated without physical abuse.

Seventy percent of children and adolescents of this generation fall into these tantrums throwing groups. E.g.

They want to poison themselves because they were chastised.
They will run away from home under any flimsy excuses.
They want to commit suicide over trivial emotional issues.
They are ready to commit murder if challenged for wrong doing.
They are not ready to be submissive or law abiding.

We tagged them “dramatists”.

Watch the attached video for a better understanding: